Once victimhood is sanctified, all the attention whores desperately want to be a victim. Hence all the dramatics about near-rape and semi-rape from silly stupid, young women who desperately want to suffer without actually suffering in order to impress their peers.
Sex does not require an annotated request and positive affirmation. If it did, then the vast majority of sex that has occurred in the history of the human race has been rape. Men are not mindreaders, so until the human race evolves telepathic communication, “he should have known better” is a risible justification for crying rape. Or near-rape. Or semi-rape.
She is certainly free to consider it semi-rape, if she wants. Just as we are free consider her a silly, stupid, drama queen. It’s not as if men never scream NO!!!!! inside either, the difference is that men are sufficiently self-aware to realize that they have no one to blame but themselves. What women call semi-rape is nothing more than what men call beer goggles.